We relocated from Gurgaon a few months back to Mumbai. Mumbai is the city where I was born and raised. Yesterday my husband and me had gone for a long drive and we were reminiscing about Mumbai and how different it looks. Most of the things have changed in Mumbai now.
When I look back at my life, that also has changed drastically over time. Same people aren’t in my life anymore, at times even with the same people my relationship isn’t the same anymore. Situations and places are also different. That’s how impermanent everything in life is. Nothing remains same over period of time – not even you ( I have changed nature as well as physically over years).
Next time you are lamenting over how bad your colleagues are or how bad your boss is treating you or how you didn’t get enough sales or how bad your situation is- remember that this isn’t permanent. Same colleague or boss or company might not be in your life in a while. Your wealth and material accumulation also won’t remain. Everything is bound to change and that’s a fact.
As I realise this, I personally find it liberating. Imagine not wasting energies on things, people and situations which are anyways not going to be permanent. So much freedom when you can let go. Moment your start realising this and stop worrying about things- life becomes truly joyful. Because in that freedom is hidden the happiness which everyone is searching for.
Why worry about things which will change? Why not enjoy the moment ?
By Preeta Sanjith