” When you have a why, you can bear any how” – This is a phenomenal truth. We unconsciously live our lives trying to derive meaning of our lives. The moment we understand that meaning (why), we are energized and motivated to do anything.
Unfortunately we spend a long time in understanding what truly brings us alive and we get stuck in our struggle for existence.
A random fight with my husband made me realise what brings me alive. 2-3 years ago there was an owner tenant dispute and I was leading the tenants. Things got really ugly and I received a threat. My husband was very annoyed and asked me if I needed to move from one cause to another.
I have always wondered that why can’t I ignore things like many do. I end up fighting causes sometimes when it doesn’t even impact me directly. And I have been in trouble for doing that but it simply happens with me.
I know now that it’s all part of finding that meaning which gives you motivation to go on in life. My writing, the probono life coaching and other things I end up doing are all part of this giving meaning to life.
I derive meaning when I help in transforming world around me to a slightly better place. It could be through my writings, creating awareness or setting an example through myself. But this truly energizes me as a person.
Think deeply and understand what brings meaning to your life? It is in understanding that, you unlock your true happiness and potential.
What gives meaning to your life? It could be as simple as striving to make my family happy. What is yours?
By Preeta Sanjith